NYC Dominatrix Mistress Pomf

Divine features. A voice like velvet that soothes, titillates, and claws into you. A mind trained in the art of domination. I will have you floating in the ecstasy of your submission.

I’m an artist through and through. Domination is a craft, and I’m your Guide, Leader, and Creator, and I have My utmost trust in the Power Exchange.

My style is sensual, creative, unpredictable. When I craft a scene, I let go and immerse in it. Wouldn’t you like to let go? Surely. This is why you are seeking a BDSM/Fetish experience. When Conscious BDSM is practiced it can be very therapeutic.

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Personal Mastery as a Femdom with NYC Dominatrix Mistress Pomf 

My BDSM journey began as a fetishist, a kinkster, and a lifestyle Domme. It wasn't too long before I discovered Femdom, a practice of personal mastery in its own right. BDSM can be a powerful tool for self-discovery and personal growth.

Alongside My passion for it, are My practices of spirituality, personal development and healing. Femdom complements these perfectly. In addition, archetypes, buddhism, shadow work, and goddess worship are all woven into My work. I am also certified as an Integrated Attachment Theory Relationship Coach, as well as Integrative Nutrition Coach. These all give Me a unique foundation, perspective, and skills.

I began My career as a professional dominatrix in the UK in 2017. Since then, I’ve trained slaves of many races, cultures, and expressions of the Masculine & Feminine. To clear up any confusion, I used to be based in NYC. These days I am based in South Florida, but don't worry if you were Googling for "dominatrix NYC." I always return to My roots every 6 months, if not more.

My Next New York Dominatrix Tour 

My next tour is in late May 2025, and I suggest booking a session in advance. This guarantees you a session with Me ahead of time. View My full travel schedule listed on My Travel Schedule Page.

I do not imagine a day where I let go of My title as NYC dominatrix. New York City is a most incredible playground, catering to endless desires and inspirations! It's a living museum, where every sight is worthy of being a page in a gorgeous illustrated storybook.

My affinity for the city began in childhood when I listened to my family talk on and on about where they were from. New York is in My DNA!

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NYC BDSM & Fetish Offerings

Some of My favorites include...

Roleplay

My biggest kink! The heavens or the depths of the Underworld are the limit with it. W/we can explore any scenario, role, archetype, or energy.

Bondage

Escape the busyness and immerse in an NYC Bondage scene. It's a kind of massage and energy work in its own right. Bookings of 1.5 hours or more are recommended in order to be transported into your own floating world. Complement it with roleplay fetish scenario and you'll really get to experience something unique! I take My subs on all kinds of journeys. Everything from the intense to the serene. It all depends on what W/we negotiate beforehand.

Sensual Domination

Not all scenes are rough, despite people's assumptions about BDSM or Fetish! As a tantric dominatrix I offer NYC Sensual Domination sessions where you your deepest needs are addressed. This can include focus on your breathing, receiving touch of different forms, very mild humiliation with light bondage and sensation play like flogging and tease and denial, for example.

Foot Worship / Foot Fetish

I have THE BEST FEET around. See for yourself in the image above, as well as My Gallery of Femdom Pics, or have a read of My Florida Foot Worship blog for a little virtual taste. The privilege of worshipping My feet comes in many forms, should you be lucky enough to receive it. I partake in everything from sensual NYC foot fetish scenes to more aggressive ones that include bondage, trampling, and mouth gagging.

BDSM Protocol, High Protocol

 Protocol is a huge turn on for Me, and will always be involved to some degree in O/our interactions. The more, the better though. I love people who pay attention to detail and take pleasure in cultivating self excellence. It pleases both Me, and your Self. You will leave a scene more empowered and dedicated to Life than when you arrived.

Tie and Tease

I tie you up and tease you. I can SMELL your hunger from across the room. Read more in this Tale of a Leg Fetish Worshiper here.

Toilet Slave Training

I'm internationally sought after as an expert in full toilet training. My golden showers and brown showers (AKA hardsports and scat sessions) are a taboo I take great pleasure in gracing you with a nonjudgmental exploration of.

Corporal Punishment

(Caning, Spanking, Paddling ~ I am big into spanking and caning!)

Sensation Play

Wartenberg Wheel, Flogger, Electro Play (Tens, Violet Wand)

Chastity Slave Training

L/let's lock that thing up. It's for your own good. Under My discerning eye, you will learn the power of self-restraint. Each moment I deny you the pleasure of release, you will grow stronger, more obedient, and more desperate for My approval. At some point youand he—will be living by the mantra "No pain no gain."

I relish every moment of this. Especially because I love self discipline. I am in the constant cultivation of it Myself. Weak men lack it, especially when it comes to their sexual energy. I enjoy watching you breaking new thresholds, and that I hold the key to your freedom.

Cock and Ball Torture

Ballbusting

Humiliation / Erotic Humiliation / Verbal Humiliation

Humiliation is subjective, and the degree each D/s pair gives/receives is unique. Giving intense or even extreme humiliation is exhilarating for Me, however I use My discretion when you haven’t submitted to Me before. The sensitivity, tolerance, and desired level of humiliation as well as experience varies for everyone. I consider it to be a mental form of pain.

You may want to explore a Femdom interrogation scene with Me. Or perhaps even Femdom Femme Fatale or erotic blackmail scene. I love all of these, and they work with all different scenarios, from girl next door to prison guard.

Adding erotic blackmail to the mix heightens things even more as the excitement in a scene increases from the edge play that CNC (consensual non-consent) offers. Combining these two kinks with roleplay is a favorite for Me. I invite you to read about a past scene in this blog here!

Breathplay with or without Facesitting

Sploshing AKA Wet and Messy Play, Food Play

Oh My~this is one of My favorite kinks! Read all about it at the link in the title.

Sensory Deprivation

As O/our scene unfolds, you begin to lose the typical function of your senses. I bind you in rope bondage or restraints. A blindfold shrouds over your eyes. My caress graces your skin in a way you've never felt before as I gently pull your hair and whisper into your ear "I get to do whatever I want to you. And all you get to do, is surrender. Shh..."

I might gag you after that. Or before. I might do some sensation play on you, or take you on a journey with My amazing storytelling skills. Many other things can be incorporated as Sensory Deprivation. It's also fantastic with roleplay of all different kinds. Everything from an interrogation to captive scene to a fantasy that you're being reborn as an alien in some kind of cocoon. The skies the limit (or the depths of hell).

Mommy Domme with or without ABDL, Diaper Fetish, and Age Play

Slut Training

Discreet Public Play

Head over to My Kinks and Fetishes page for an even more expansive list.

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How you can submit to Me

I conduct My sessions at a fully-equipped dungeon in Manhattan. My play-space is clean and organized with all the essentials. Outcalls are granted to those with reputable references or top notch communication with Me. Please note that there is a surcharge for outcalls to cover travel costs and time away from My dungeon where I schedule most sessions.

I welcome all levels of experience to apply to serve Me. Respect and good communication are primary to earning a session. Remember, I only delight in activities that excite Me. As an applicant, your interests have to be compatible with Mine. We both want to have an incredible session!

Release your control.

Letting go under My guidance will give life to genuine experiences.

Slaves and fetishists alike dream of this. Read what My Testimonials have to say. My blog BDSM Power Exchange: What Makes Great Power Exchanges? was written for you. See if W/we share compatible perspectives on BDSM and kink.

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Homage to being an NYC Femdom

Some ask what My favorite place to be a dominatrix is. Honestly? NYC baby. Mind the fact that I've I toured all over! It's not only one of the most incredible cities, but its unique, creative energy is like rocket fuel for those committed to their vocation. New York always rewards those who are. It infuses Me with inspiration for the craft and profession of Femdom.

"Go to New York! It'll be great for your career!" was the encouragement of my great friend and mentor, Manchester UK's Mistress Lola Ruin. And she was right. New York requires a commitment of you, and She will match it. It's motivating.

New York City is also a great place for dominatrices. Why?

There's much less stigma projected onto our work.

As we know, it's also the melting pot. People are open to other ideas. You better be good at your craft, or else. If you resent this city then "Why don't you just leave!" a loyal New Yorker might say.

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La crème de la crème of Femdom, New York

Being a dominatrix in the city isn't a big whoop because many individuals are pursuing it. And, many who are, take great pride in it. NEW YORK attracts la crème de la crème of Femdom. She inspires Me to be QUEEN of the hill, top of the list (you bet).

In New York, kink is more accepted than the average place. People are open. You ride the train and see online dating ads promoting alternative relationship styles such as polyamory. Getting your sexual health panel is appreciated not shamed.

You walk the street and pass all kinds of sellers, selling all kinds of things. Look around and you see people working, working all kinds of jobs. You better be very skilled enough at your art or trade to draw attention and make bank!

Work is not so behind the scenes as it is in a suburb or smaller city. In addition, people are too busy to concentrate on YOU! ~Gosh it must feel amazing when I am gracing you with My UNDIVIDED Attention & Presence!

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New York Public Humiliation

Speaking of all this, NYC is the perfect city for discreet public play. There's just too much else going on for anyone to care that much about you for a split second! See that picture there? My sub took that—whilst wearing a butt plug connected to an app on My phone that I was controlling. Don't I look all innocent and vanilla?

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Discreet public play is not for everyone. But if it's your interest, OR you want to book a social date where you take Me out (minus discreet play), TAKE NOTE : you must be on your BEST behavior and have excellent manners and etiquette to be granted these types of scenes with Me. you ought to be ALL the time, but I will mention it here to hammer it home. Manners & etiquette are not exclusive to the dungeon, and those I grace with My presence best honor them.

In addition to these public outings, there are also some good BDSM NYC parties. Going to one together is another enjoyable option some submissives choose when booking an NYC Femdom session with Me.

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When and where will Mistress Pomf be in NYC

My next visit to NYC is scheduled for May 23-25, 2025. I suggest booking your BDSM or fetish session in advance. This assures you one in advance.

Want a session with Me during a time when I am not scheduled to visit? I offer a Fly Me To you option. To be granted this you must pay all My travel expenses and I will visit during your requested time, given I have the availability. Bookings of this nature must be over 4 hours long at least.

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NYC Dominatrix Mistress Pomf’s Unique Signature

I will entice your mind and lure you into My dominion. Submission is humbling, and I raise My submissives to be proud of it. Any session I create is endowed with My unique signature. A session granted is not just time granted. It’s a creative experience for you to cherish being in the moment with My presence 100% devoted to you. Too many suffer from loneliness, lack of touch, lack of genuine intimacy. But you will leave our scene feeling nourished.

I was born to be a dominatrix. To breathe My creativity in every play. Surrender to Me, enter My realm, and be freed from the confines of your Sacred Sexuality.

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"You can imagine the rush that is created when such private fantasies are shared with someone who is not only willing to participate with you, but is genuinely excited to do so.”

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Tour Dates

South Florida : NOW BASED! (Except When Touring)

 Pompano + Outcalls to Broward & Miami

NYC : May 23-25

Phoenix, Arizona : Next Visit TBA (probably early August)

Denver : Next Visit TBA (probably early August)

Seattle : TBD (maybe August)

Los Angeles : TBD

San Diego : TBD 

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