What Activities Will You Indulge in With Me?
you can find a list of activities I offer (and activities I don't) in My Fetishes page. Anything not listed as a limit, you may inquire about.
No. If I ever did, it would be at My discretion, and not because you have asked for it. If you ask, I will say no. If you pressure or disobey Me, I will dismiss you from My play-space.
I do clothed facesitting and ass worship. I do so in thongs, latex, lingerie, or dirty panties (for My scent fetishists). Methods of worship do not involve oral sex. All methods involve your submission to Me. You can read My erotica on Facesitting here.
Booking a Session with Mistress Pomf
I accept submissives and slaves of all levels of experience. I’m happy to work with all races, ethnicities, genders, sexual orientations, and the neurodiverse. Honesty, good communication, and consent are the foundations of healthy BDSM & kink experiences, it helps Me tailor a session to your needs and abilities.
Apply to serve! Loads of respectful fetishists get the privilege of serving Me. So long as I enjoy or share your fetishes I will consider you. Keep in mind that I expect fetishists to lower their ego and submit to the BDSM power exchange. Power exchange is required of the type of session with Me as the Dominatrix in charge. Are you willing to let go into the power of your submission? If so, I promise you will have a genuine experience both slaves and fetishists dream of living when in the presence of a Dominant Woman such as Myself. Read what both slaves and fetishists have said in My Guestbook and blogs.
Yes. I have nearly a decade of experience playing with couples.
Furthermore, I love it when a partner has the confidence to send their submissive partner to me to be professionally dominated. I admire couples where a partner allows their partner the freedom to get needs fulfilled that they might not be able to give to their partner themselves. I find that when I grant a session of this nature, the couple is able to center their relationship on the other needs they fulfill for each other. I appreciate helping facilitate the expansion of connection.
Apply to serve Me by filling out the booking form here. Obvious ignorance of My limits or details listed on those pages will result in rejection of your application. When applying, be specific about your availability. Be clear about any experiences you are wishing to achieve as My submissive. If you have physical limitations, health/medical issues, be honest. Doing so helps Me craft a session around your limitations.
Consultation Call: Once I receive a deposit for a session I always give a 5-10 minute phone consultation call to new submissives. I enjoy giving consult calls. They’re both an opportunity to get to know each other before a session as well as discuss our fantasies together. Giving others the opportunity to express oneself verbally is important to Me, as text can only go so far. Furthermore, I have a number of people catfishing Me online nowadays and duping prospective submissives out of their money. Only so much is within My control over this unfortunately.
I will only contact your phone for our scheduled consult call. The other times when your number will be necessary as a means of contact is on the day of our session when you need to call/text Me confirming our meeting as well as when you need to contact Me so I can grant you access into the session location.
Please keep in mind that once you acquire My number, I will always redirect you back to email as a means of communication. The amount of messenger apps, emails systems, and other means of communication is increasing, and while there are advantages to this, a great disadvantage is the confusion and disorganization that can ensue when streams of communication happen in multiple places and we can’t easily retrieve conversations.
Lastly, consult calls are mandatory. I decline applicants who try to avoid them by refusing to provide their number, etc. If you’re stressed out about providing your number to Me, we aren’t off to a good start. BDSM requires trust. If you’re worried to give Me your number yet are asking Me to take control over your body and mind as a Dominant, I suggest you take a serious look at your values.
I am a professional who takes the privacy of both Myself and My submissives very seriously. I also take My safety seriously.
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Rarely will I be able to grant you one as My schedule is often already filled. If I do, a deposit is required as well as the mandatory consult call which follows Me receiving your deposit. This is My protocol for all bookings. All new subs must fill out My booking application.
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I will likely grant you one, given I have the availability. As always, a deposit is required. This is My protocol for all bookings. I never drop this protocol even with My most beloved long term subs.
If you've missed My travels but are still dreaming of sessioning with Me, send your application anyway. I will keep it on hand and contact you when I plan to visit again. If you don't see your city included in My tour schedule, submit your application and I may consider including it. My goddess feet have traversed far and wide, from the big apple to the most bustling of Asian cities, to the more obscure, off the beaten path terrain. Magic can be discovered, cultivated, and experienced anywhere!
I offered webcam domination sessions throughout My career until late 2021. They do not fit into My schedule at the moment. I still offer phone chat via Niteflirt. So give Me a call through there whenever you see Me available.
As of 2020, I am now accepting lifestyle slaves to serve Me in specific ways. I am only looking for slaves who fill specific needs in My life. These needs are not fetish based at the moment. For example, one of My lifestyle slaves stretches canvas for Me. Another details My car. They do this out of servitude, pure love and worship of Me and not with an expectation that I will play with them.
I do not live under the thumb of conditional love, an affliction humanity is disturbed by. In My personal life I volunteer freely when I can, simply because there is a need for My service, I have the ability to give it, and want to do so. My servitude is not built from a system of checks and balances, and I choose lifestyle slaves who aspire to live and give unconditionally as well. Giving and receiving unconditionally is not easy. It is a practice. And with consistent practice it is both nourishing and enlightening.
Location & Travel
I’m a nomadic goddess, born to roam freely and as a result I tour frequently! The cities of south Florida, Phoenix, and Denver are ones I visit most often now.
My tour schedule can be found at the footer of My website here, My Twitter page, and at the end of My email correspondence with you.
You have the option to book your session in advance if your desired location is included in My tour schedule (you will find it listed on the application form). Sometimes we benefit from planning instead of waiting till the last minute... and possibly missing out!
To Clear Up Any Confusion…
Before 2020, I was based in New York City. This was complimented by regular touring of the east coast. South Florida: Fort Lauderdale/Miami, Boston, Philly, and DC were recurrent visits during those tours.
When 2020, took the collective in different directions I decided it was time to go west, something I wanted to do for many years. Relocating to the west/southwestern states has been a splendid choice. Thus, My tour route has changed!
Not to worry, I still tour New York. My last visit was in summer 2021. You can check My tour schedule for any upcoming visits.
I’m grateful for the unique experiences and connections made as a New York dominatrix. The choice to work in the big apple was enriching for My legacy. Thanks to all who have co-created My New York journey with Me!
Miami is My birthplace. I adore My time there as family or friend to some, and pro domme to others (mostly miscreants like yourself). You can count on serving Me in Florida several times throughout the year. Winter visits are always in the mix as I enjoy a liberating escape from the harshness of winter.
When in the UK, I’m based in Manchester at a discreet, fully equipped dungeon. I am unsure when My next visit will be, but it will be posted on My schedule when that day arrives.
2021-2022 Nomadic Goddess Autumn-Winter Tour
My most recent extensive tour was from the southwest through the south. I visited Denver, Phoenix, Santa Fe, Dallas, Austin, Houston, New Orleans, Orlando, and Pompano. It was both exhilarating and exhausting! Thank you to the amazing new subs who trained under Me. XO
Tribute varies depending upon location and is typically anywhere from $350-$400 per hour for the majority of types of sessions booked as in-calls. Outcalls and specialty sessions such as sploshing and full toilet training are available at an additional charge. Full toilet training sessions are an additional $150 for first timers, $100 if you've previously submitted to Me. For full toilet training sessions I must receive your deposit at least 2 days prior to our appointment. Full toilet sessions are granted only in the morning from 9-11 AM. This has been a speciality of Mine for years and because of My expertise I am highly sought after as a toilet slave trainer. Thus, My session slots are limited, so I suggest booking ASAP to assure your position beneath Me.
I charge extra on specific services. Examples include hardsports and sploshing. Use of My toys, restraints, and other services are included in My hourly rate. If you request Me to use My toys in a means that would erode or cause them to be contaminated I will indicate that you must bring your own to session or otherwise tribute Me the cost of the toy plus the time and energy spent acquiring it.
I take a 50% deposit for all bookings. Be prepared to pay in Bitcoin, Venmo, or Cashapp. You will bring the remaining tribute with you to O/our session in cash neatly prepared in a white envelope. Though not necessary, tips are of course always appreciated.
No. The only discounts I ever do are surprise promos. If you can’t afford a session right now, save up. Chances are you’ll cherish the experience we share even more when you can afford it.
I now take Bitcoin for deposits. Other deposit methods have proven inferior, while this method is secure. By following it you help us remain confidential, never reveling personal information or ties to sex work. If you’re new to Cryptocurrency, I encourage you to read over the information in the highlighted blog link and expand your learning via other online resources. Once you get past the initial verification, it’s simple. If you can operate a Smartphone you can send a Bitcoin deposit.
NO. Paypal hates sex workers. Many sex workers have had their accounts banned. I’m not going to risk getting banned from using them and thus unable to use them for personal international payments online. If you’re unwilling to send Me a deposit via the discreet methods I give you than it indicates you do not respect the privacy or both of us.
A deposit let’s Me know you are serious about serving Me and you intend to show up for the session. And if you don’t, I still get paid something for the trouble of going out of My way to correspond, plan, and meet you. No one likes to have their time and energy wasted.
If you need to cancel, you must do so 24 hours before our session or your deposit will be lost. If you cancel with a few days notice, I will honor your deposit and give you the remaining time of My tour visit to re-book. You must reschedule during the same tour.
In some cases, I may have a future visit already planned in your location. If this is the case, I may allow you to re-book for that next visit. However, this may not always be a suitable option that I can grace you with.
Unless I cancel, a deposit is non-refundable.
General Questions for a Session from Mistress Pomf
With the exception of NYC, all of My current playspaces have free parking. In regards to NYC, you will have to use your own discretion and find parking at a garage etc.
The time will cut into your session time. I cannot waive this tardiness as it would disrupt My schedule and the scheduling of the play spaces shared with other Mistresses.
My equipment is sanitized thoroughly with boiling techniques and antibacterial products. I am exceptionally hygienic and sincerely care about our health and safety.
As indicated earlier, we will have a consultation call prior to session. When you arrive at My playspace I will initiate a pre-play conversation. If you want to begin our scene without a pre-play chat we can discuss this option during our consult call.
Absolutely! I prefer you use Red for “full stop” on an activity and Yellow for “ease off” on an activity. There are also nonverbal safe words I can teach you to use in a case where you cannot speak such as during breathplay. I take consent and safe words very seriously.
I stop, check in, and guide the session in another direction we both feel good going in (unless you decide to end all together). Respecting safe words allows us to explore safely.
I do not 99% of the time. The 1% when I might play without safe words is extremely rare.
I get this request a lot. It's an in depth topic on ethics longer than what I've written below.
If you're new to me and request a no safe word session I will probably not take your application seriously. Requesting a no safe word session leads me to believe you have no consideration for your mental and physical health to put all your trust in me when we have never played together, nonetheless met before.
D/s pairs who play without safe words in a healthy way are rare. And most of the time it appears they aren't using safe words when they still have them but aren't using them in a scene. The ability to play healthily without using safe words requires a level of intimacy and vulnerability from both the sub and the Domme. This level requires healthy communication before and after the scene. Players who play without safe words often have been practicing together for many years and know each other on another level. And with that being said, people's boundaries change.
It depends. I used to say yes to many CNC sessions, however not all submissives I deem suitable for playing with this way. CNC is best when we have already trained together and have gained some trust.
With that being said, I enjoy CNC scenes. Click here for even more information on consensual non-consent. Click on this article for more insight into safe words. The article discusses fantasies where a partner says stop but wants to have the scene continue consensually.
It is in both our collective interests to be discreet. What we do in our sessions and your identity I shall take to the grave. As a professional Dominatrix, this is very important, I respect your privacy under any circumstances. I will never call you unsolicited. My primary means of communication is email, and the only time we will ever communicate via phone is in our consult call and on the day of session when you need to get in touch with Me.
Furthermore, I will never take photographs or videos without your expressed permission. I ask you to be likewise discreet and respect My privacy. Any photos you may see on My Twitter feed or website have been consented to be used.
Toilet Training Sessions
I expect a deposit paid in advance of all sessions. Full toilet training sessions are an additional $150 for first timers, $100 if you've previously submitted to Me.
For full toilet training sessions I must receive your deposit at least 2 days prior to our appointment.
Full toilet sessions are granted only in the morning from 8-11 AM.
This has been a speciality of Mine for years and because of My expertise I am highly sought after as a toilet slave trainer. Thus, My session slots are limited, so I suggest booking ASAP to assure your position beneath Me.
I take pride in My natural skills to provide the best toilet training for My toilets slaves. There is a clear reason why I do this session at the same time every day. Regularity. In regards to amount: I will not grant sessions to anyone who places demands for Me to produce large quantities in one go. I am a Goddess, not a machine. I have let go of toilet slaves who disrespected Me by this kind of objectification before. The only toilet slaves and scat fetishists I keep in My life are those who who show respect and gratitude for what I provide. As a Goddess My body fluctuates and so does the amounts and aromas it gives off.
I make watersports clips and toilet fantasy clips. I do not make scat clips. I will not be creating any as this would take away from the taboo element I so enjoy. Only slaves who serve in person as My toilet get to explore FTT beneath Me.
With that being said, you can find one of My top selling clips Save Our Marriage and Eat My… here.