FAQ

What Activities Will You Indulge in With Me?

Q. What activities do You do?
A. you can find a list of activities I offer in My Fetishes page. Anything not listed as a limit, you may inquire about.

Q. What activities won’t You do?
A. you can find my limits on My Fetishes page.

Q. Can W/we have sex?
A. No. Not under any circumstances. Your request will be ignored.

Q. Do You allow intimate worship such as pussy licking, rimming and naked facesitting?
A. No. If I ever did, it would be at My discretion, and not because you have asked for it. Your request will be ignored.

Q. If you don’t allow intimate worship, how do you do ass worship or facesitting?
A. I do clothed facesitting and ass worship. I do so in thongs, latex, lingerie, or dirty panties (for My scent fetishists). Methods of worship do not involve oral sex. All methods involve your submission to Me. You can read My erotica on Facesitting here. 

 

Booking a Session with Mistress Pomf

Q. What levels of experience do You accept?
A. I accept submissives and slaves of all levels of experience. I’m happy to work with all races, ethnicities, genders, sexual orientations, and the neurodiverse. Honesty, good communication, and consent are the foundations of healthy BDSM & kink experiences, it helps Me tailor a session to your needs and abilities.

Q. I’m not a submissive. I have a particular fetish. Will you grant a session centered around My fetish?
A. Apply to serve! Loads of respectful fetishists get the privilege of serving Me. So long as I enjoy or share your fetishes I will consider you. Keep in mind that I expect fetishists to lower their ego and submit to the BDSM power exchange. Power exchange is required of the type of session with Me as the Dominatrix in charge. Are you willing to let go into the power of your submission? If so, I promise you will have a genuine experience both slaves and fetishists dream of living when in the presence of a Dominant Woman such as Myself. Read what both slaves and fetishists have said in My Guestbook and blogs.

Q. Do You see couples?
A. Yes.

Q. How can I apply to serve you?
A. Apply to serve Me by filling out the booking form here. Obvious ignorance of My limits or details listed on those pages will result in rejection of your application. When applying, be specific about your availability. Be clear about any experiences you are wishing to achieve as My submissive. If you have physical limitations, health/medical issues, be honest. Doing so helps Me craft a session around your limitations.

Q. Can I call You to chat about my session?
A. Consultation Call: Once I receive a deposit for a session I always give a 5-10 minute phone consultation to new submissives. I love consult calls. They’re both an opportunity to get to know each other before a session as well as discuss our fantasies together.

I will only contact your phone for our scheduled consult call. The other times when your number will be necessary is for the day of our session when you need to call/text Me confirming our meeting and for Me to buzz you into the session location. 

Please keep in mind that once you acquire My number, I will always redirect you back to email as a means of communication. The amount of messenger apps, emails systems, and other means of communication is increasing, and while there are advantages to this, a great disadvantage is the confusion and disorganization that can ensue when streams of communication happen in multiple places and we can’t easily retrieve conversations. 

Lastly, Consult calls are mandatory. I decline applicants who try to avoid them by refusing to provide their number, etc. If you’re stressed out about providing your number to Me, we aren’t off to a good start. BDSM requires trust. If you’re worried to give Me your number yet are asking Me to take control over your body and mind as a Dominant, I suggest you take a serious look at your values.

I am a professional who takes the privacy of both Myself and My submissives very seriously. I also take My safety seriously. 

If you want to chat to Me outside of the consultation call you are welcome to call Me on Niteflirt. You’re also welcome to follow Me on social media at Twitter or Instagram. During My Instagram live feeds, submissives have the chance to bask in My presence  and “Ask Me Anything.” I love engaging with My kinky followers! Ask nicely and I might let you virtually worship My feet. 

Q. Do you grant same day sessions?
A. It depends. If you following My booking procedure and get your deposit to Me that day I might. However, I rarely grant same-day sessions to new submissives. If you’ve served Me before and I have the availability I’ll likely grant you a same-day session. All new subs must fill out My booking application.

Other Servitude

Q. Wow! I desperately want to worship you but I live too far away. Do You do domination sessions via Skype or phone chat?
A. Yes. Contact Me to arrange webcam domination sessions here. I also offer phone chat via Niteflirt.

Q. Do you accept personal slaves or lifestyle slaves?
A. As of 2020, I am now accepting lifestyle slaves to serve Me in specific ways. I am only looking for slaves who fill specific needs in My life. These needs are not fetish based at the moment. For example, one of My lifestyle slaves stretches canvas for Me. Another details My car. They do this out of pure love and worship of Me and not with an expectation of Me playing with them. I refuse to live My life under the thumb of conditional love. In My personal life I volunteer My time freely simply because there is a need for My service and I have the ability to give it. I choose lifestyle slaves who aspire to live and give unconditionally as well.  

 

Location & Travel

Q. Where are You?
A. I’m a nomadic Goddess, born to travel and as a result I tour frequently! When I’m not on tour, I’m based in Midtown Manhattan NYC. 

US Cities I Tour Regularly:

South Florida: Fort Lauderdale/Miami, Boston, Philly, and DC every 3 months. You can apply for any of these locations in advance.

Other Cities:

My insatiable fetish for travel persuades Me to consider all locations. If you don’t see Me touring your city, go ahead and apply anyhow. I’ll keep your application on file in case I do tour your city in the future. If I don’t have plans to tour your city and you seriously want a session, you can Fly Me to You! Requesting this option indicates you are ready to pay both My tribute and travel costs to your city.

UK:

When in the UK, I’m based in Manchester at a discreet, fully equipped dungeon.

Follow My Twitter to see where I’m currently touring.

Q. Do You do outcalls?
A. Yes, but only to hotels that are 4 stars or above. Tribute is subject to an increase depending upon location. Outcalls are subject to tighter screening. I may request to see your ID. If you have previously served Me, I am more inclined to grant you an outcall.

 

Tribute

Q. What is the tribute for a session with you?
A. Tribute varies dependent upon location. Tribute starts at $300-$350 outside of NYC. NYC tribute starts at $380. International tribute might vary. FTT is an additional $100. Exact tribute is specified once I grant you a session. 

Q. Do you charge extra for any services?
A. I charge extra on specific services. Examples include hardsports and sploshing. Use of My toys, restraints, and other services are included in My hourly rate. If you request Me to use My toys in a means that would erode or cause them to be contaminated I will indicate that you must bring your own to session or otherwise tribute Me the cost of the toy plus the time and energy spent acquiring it. 

Q. How do I pay for my session?
A. I take a 50% deposit for all bookings. Be prepared to pay in Bitcoin. You can read about this here. You will bring the remaining tribute with you in Cash to our session. Bring the tribute in a white envelope or otherwise neatly prepared. 

Q. Will You reduce Your rates for me?
A. No. The only discounts I ever do are surprise promos. If you can’t afford a session right now, save up. Chances are you’ll cherish the experience we share even more when you can afford it. 

Q. How can I pay a deposit?
A. I now take Bitcoin for deposits. Other deposit methods have proven inferior, while this method is secure. By following it you help us remain confidential, never reveling personal information or ties to sex work. If you’re new to Cryptocurrency, I encourage you to read over the information in the highlighted blog link and expand your learning via other online resources. Once you get past the initial verification, it’s simple. If you can operate a Smartphone you can send a Bitcoin deposit. 

Q. Do you accept Paypal?
A. NO. Paypal hates sex workers. Many sex workers have had their accounts banned. I’m not going to risk getting banned from using them and thus unable to use them for personal international payments online. If you’re unwilling to send Me a deposit via the discreet methods I give you than it indicates you do not respect the privacy or both of us. 

Q. Why should I give a deposit?
A. A deposit let’s Me know you are serious about serving Me. It also tells Me that you will show up for the session. And if you don’t, I still get paid something for the trouble of going out of My way to correspond, plan, and meet you. No one likes to have their time and energy wasted. Deposits are nonrefundable. 

Cancellation Policy:

If you need to cancel, you must do so 24 hours before our session or your deposit will be lost. If you cancel with a few days notice, I will honor your deposit and give you 6 weeks to rebook. You can rebook after the 6 weeks but you must schedule a date within 6 weeks. The date has to be within 2 months. If you are booking me while on tour outside of NYC you must reschedule during the same tour. Unless I cancel, a deposit is non-refundable. ​​

 

General Questions for a Session from Mistress Pomf

Q. Is there parking at Your location?
A. With the exception of NYC, all of My current playspaces have free parking. In regards to NYC, you will have to use your own discretion and find  parking at a garage etc.

Q. What are the consequences if I’m late to O/our session?
A. The time will cut into your session time. I cannot waive this tardiness as it would disrupt My schedule and the scheduling of the play spaces shared with other Mistresses. 

Q. How sanitary is Your equipment?
A. My equipment is sanitized thoroughly with boiling techniques and antibacterial products. I seriously care about both O/our health and safety. I am exceptionally hygienic.

Q. Can I take a shower before or after our session.
A. Yes. There is a shower for you to use. 

Q. Will we start the session as Dom/sub or can we talk first?
A. As indicated earlier, we will have a consultation call prior to session. When you arrive at My playspace I will initiate a pre-play conversation.  If you want to begin our scene without a pre-play chat we can discuss this option during our consult call.  

Q. Do you give aftercare?
A. Aftercare is always given unless you prefer not to have it.

Q. Can I use a safe word?
A. Absolutely! I prefer you use Red for “full stop” on an activity and Yellow for “ease off” on an activity. There are also nonverbal safe words I can teach you to use in a case where you cannot speak such as during breathplay. I take consent and safe words very seriously.

Q. What happens if I RED on an activity with You?
A. I stop, check in, and guide the session in another direction (unless you decide to end all together). Respecting safe words allows U/us to explore safely.

Q. Do you do no safe word or no limits sessions?
A. I do not 99% of the time. The 1% when I might play without safe words is extremely rare. It’s also an in depth topic on ethics for another day. 

Q. Will you do Consensual Non-Consent (CNC) sessions?
A. Yes. I enjoy CNC scenes. Don’t know what that is after reading the previous link? Click here for even more information on consensual non-consent. Click on this article for more insight into safe words. The article discusses fantasies where a partner says stop but wants to have the scene continue consensually.

Q. Are You discreet?
A. It is in both our collective interests to be discreet. What we do in our sessions and your identity I shall take to the grave. As a professional Dominatrix, this is very important, I respect your privacy under any circumstances. I will never call you unsolicited. My primary means of communication is email, and the only time we will ever communicate via phone is in our consult call and on the day of session when you need to get in touch with Me.

Furthermore, I will never take photographs or videos without your expressed permission. I ask you to be likewise discreet and respect My privacy. Any photos you may see on My Twitter feed or website have been consented to be used.

Toilet Training Sessions

Q. How can I book a hardsports session with You?
A. I expect a deposit paid in advance of the session. Hardsports sessions are an additional $100. This is industry standard and non-negotiable. I will need to receive your deposit at least 2 days prior to a requested session. FTT sessions are only available once a day during the hours of 11am – 12pm.

Q. Is your scat fresh? Do you take anything to make yourself go during a session?
A.  I take pride in My natural skills to provide the best toilet training for My toilets slaves. There is a clear reason why I do this session at the same time every day. Regularity. In regards to amount: I will not grant sessions to anyone who places demands  for Me to produce large quantities in one go. I am a Goddess, not a machine. I have let go of toilet slaves who disrespected Me by this kind of objectification before. The only toilet slaves and scat fetishists I keep in My life are those who who show respect and gratitude for what I provide. As a Goddess My body fluctuates and so does the amounts and aromas it gives off. 

Q. Do you make toilet clips? 

A.  I make watersports clips and toilet fantasy clips. I do not make scat clips. I will not be creating any as this would take away from the taboo element I so enjoy. Only slaves who serve in person as My toilet get to explore FTT beneath Me. 

With that being said, you can find one of My top selling clips  Save Our Marriage and Eat My… here. 

FAQ

What Activities Will You Indulge in With Me?

Q. What activities do You do?
A. you can find a list of activities I offer in My Fetishes page. Anything not listed as a limit, you may inquire about.

Q. What activities won’t You do?
A. you can find my limits on My Fetishes page.

Q. Can W/we have sex?
A. No. Not under any circumstances. Your request will be ignored.

Q. Do You allow intimate worship such as pussy licking, rimming and naked facesitting?
A. No. If I ever did, it would be at My discretion, and not because you have asked for it. Your request will be ignored.

Q. If you don’t allow intimate worship, how do you do ass worship or facesitting?
A. I do clothed facesitting and ass worship. I do so in thongs, latex, lingerie, or dirty panties (for My scent fetishists). Methods of worship do not involve oral sex. All methods involve your submission to Me. You can read My erotica on Facesitting here. 

 

Booking a Session with Mistress Pomf

Q. What levels of experience do You accept?
A. I accept submissives and slaves of all levels of experience. I’m happy to work with all races, ethnicities, genders, sexual orientations, and the neurodiverse. Honesty, good communication, and consent are the foundations of healthy BDSM & kink experiences, it helps Me tailor a session to your needs and abilities.

Q. I’m not a submissive. I have a particular fetish. Will you grant a session centered around My fetish?
A. Apply to serve! Loads of respectful fetishists get the privilege of serving Me. So long as I enjoy or share your fetishes I will consider you. Keep in mind that I expect fetishists to lower their ego and submit to the BDSM power exchange. Power exchange is required of the type of session with Me as the Dominatrix in charge. Are you willing to let go into the power of your submission? If so, I promise you will have a genuine experience both slaves and fetishists dream of living when in the presence of a Dominant Woman such as Myself. Read what both slaves and fetishists have said in My Guestbook and blogs.

Q. Do You see couples?
A. Yes.

Q. How can I apply to serve you?
A. Apply to serve Me by filling out the booking form here. Obvious ignorance of My limits or details listed on those pages will result in rejection of your application. When applying, be specific about your availability. Be clear about any experiences you are wishing to achieve as My submissive. If you have physical limitations, health/medical issues, be honest. Doing so helps Me craft a session around your limitations.

Q. Can I call You to chat about my session?
A. Consultation Call: Once I receive a deposit for a session I always give a 5-10 minute phone consultation to new submissives. I love consult calls. They’re both an opportunity to get to know each other before a session as well as discuss our fantasies together.

I will only contact your phone for our scheduled consult call. The other times when your number will be necessary is for the day of our session when you need to call/text Me confirming our meeting and for Me to buzz you into the session location. 

Please keep in mind that once you acquire My number, I will always redirect you back to email as a means of communication. The amount of messenger apps, emails systems, and other means of communication is increasing, and while there are advantages to this, a great disadvantage is the confusion and disorganization that can ensue when streams of communication happen in multiple places and we can’t easily retrieve conversations. 

Lastly, Consult calls are mandatory. I decline applicants who try to avoid them by refusing to provide their number, etc. If you’re stressed out about providing your number to Me, we aren’t off to a good start. BDSM requires trust. If you’re worried to give Me your number yet are asking Me to take control over your body and mind as a Dominant, I suggest you take a serious look at your values.

I am a professional who takes the privacy of both Myself and My submissives very seriously. I also take My safety seriously. 

If you want to chat to Me outside of the consultation call you are welcome to call Me on Niteflirt. You’re also welcome to follow Me on social media at Twitter or Instagram. During My Instagram live feeds, submissives have the chance to bask in My presence  and “Ask Me Anything.” I love engaging with My kinky followers! Ask nicely and I might let you virtually worship My feet. 

Q. Do you grant same day sessions?
A. It depends. If you following My booking procedure and get your deposit to Me that day I might. However, I rarely grant same-day sessions to new submissives. If you’ve served Me before and I have the availability I’ll likely grant you a same-day session. All new subs must fill out My booking application.

Other Servitude

Q. Wow! I desperately want to worship you but I live too far away. Do You do domination sessions via Skype or phone chat?
A. Yes. Contact Me to arrange webcam domination sessions here. I also offer phone chat via Niteflirt.

Q. Do you accept personal slaves or lifestyle slaves?
A. As of 2020, I am now accepting lifestyle slaves to serve Me in specific ways. I am only looking for slaves who fill specific needs in My life. These needs are not fetish based at the moment. For example, one of My lifestyle slaves stretches canvas for Me. Another details My car. They do this out of pure love and worship of Me and not with an expectation of Me playing with them. I refuse to live My life under the thumb of conditional love. In My personal life I volunteer My time freely simply because there is a need for My service and I have the ability to give it. I choose lifestyle slaves who aspire to live and give unconditionally as well.  

 

Location & Travel

Q. Where are You?
A. I’m a nomadic Goddess, born to travel and as a result I tour frequently! When I’m not on tour, I’m based in Midtown Manhattan NYC. 

US Cities I Tour Regularly:

South Florida: Fort Lauderdale/Miami, Boston, Philly, and DC every 3 months. You can apply for any of these locations in advance.

Other Cities:

My insatiable fetish for travel persuades Me to consider all locations. If you don’t see Me touring your city, go ahead and apply anyhow. I’ll keep your application on file in case I do tour your city in the future. If I don’t have plans to tour your city and you seriously want a session, you can Fly Me to You! Requesting this option indicates you are ready to pay both My tribute and travel costs to your city.

UK:

When in the UK, I’m based in Manchester at a discreet, fully equipped dungeon.

Follow My Twitter to see where I’m currently touring.

Q. Do You do outcalls?
A. Yes, but only to hotels that are 4 stars or above. Tribute is subject to an increase depending upon location. Outcalls are subject to tighter screening. I may request to see your ID. If you have previously served Me, I am more inclined to grant you an outcall.

 

Tribute

Q. What is the tribute for a session with you?
A. Tribute varies dependent upon location. Tribute starts at $300-$350 outside of NYC. NYC tribute starts at $380. International tribute might vary. FTT is an additional $100. Exact tribute is specified once I grant you a session. 

Q. Do you charge extra for any services?
A. I charge extra on specific services. Examples include hardsports and sploshing. Use of My toys, restraints, and other services are included in My hourly rate. If you request Me to use My toys in a means that would erode or cause them to be contaminated I will indicate that you must bring your own to session or otherwise tribute Me the cost of the toy plus the time and energy spent acquiring it. 

Q. How do I pay for my session?
A. I take a 50% deposit for all bookings. Be prepared to pay in Bitcoin. You can read about this here. You will bring the remaining tribute with you in Cash to our session. Bring the tribute in a white envelope or otherwise neatly prepared. 

Q. Will You reduce Your rates for me?
A. No. The only discounts I ever do are surprise promos. If you can’t afford a session right now, save up. Chances are you’ll cherish the experience we share even more when you can afford it. 

Q. How can I pay a deposit?
A. I now take Bitcoin for deposits. Other deposit methods have proven inferior, while this method is secure. By following it you help us remain confidential, never reveling personal information or ties to sex work. If you’re new to Cryptocurrency, I encourage you to read over the information in the highlighted blog link and expand your learning via other online resources. Once you get past the initial verification, it’s simple. If you can operate a Smartphone you can send a Bitcoin deposit. 

Q. Do you accept Paypal?
A. NO. Paypal hates sex workers. Many sex workers have had their accounts banned. I’m not going to risk getting banned from using them and thus unable to use them for personal international payments online. If you’re unwilling to send Me a deposit via the discreet methods I give you than it indicates you do not respect the privacy or both of us. 

Q. Why should I give a deposit?
A. A deposit let’s Me know you are serious about serving Me. It also tells Me that you will show up for the session. And if you don’t, I still get paid something for the trouble of going out of My way to correspond, plan, and meet you. No one likes to have their time and energy wasted. Deposits are nonrefundable. 

Cancellation Policy:

If you need to cancel, you must do so 24 hours before our session or your deposit will be lost. If you cancel with a few days notice, I will honor your deposit and give you 6 weeks to rebook. You can rebook after the 6 weeks but you must schedule a date within 6 weeks. The date has to be within 2 months. If you are booking me while on tour outside of NYC you must reschedule during the same tour. Unless I cancel, a deposit is non-refundable. 

 

General Questions for a Session from Mistress Pomf

Q. Is there parking at Your location?
A. With the exception of NYC, all of My current playspaces have free parking. In regards to NYC, you will have to use your own discretion and find  parking at a garage etc.

Q. What are the consequences if I’m late to O/our session?
A. The time will cut into your session time. I cannot waive this tardiness as it would disrupt My schedule and the scheduling of the play spaces shared with other Mistresses. 

Q. How sanitary is Your equipment?
A. My equipment is sanitized thoroughly with boiling techniques and antibacterial products. I seriously care about both O/our health and safety. I am exceptionally hygienic.

Q. Can I take a shower before or after our session.
A. Yes. There is a shower for you to use. 

Q. Will we start the session as Dom/sub or can we talk first?
A. As indicated earlier, we will have a consultation call prior to session. When you arrive at My playspace I will initiate a pre-play conversation.  If you want to begin our scene without a pre-play chat we can discuss this option during our consult call.  

Q. Do you give aftercare?
A. Aftercare is always given unless you prefer not to have it.

Q. Can I use a safe word?
A. Absolutely! I prefer you use Red for “full stop” on an activity and Yellow for “ease off” on an activity. There are also nonverbal safe words I can teach you to use in a case where you cannot speak such as during breathplay. I take consent and safe words very seriously.

Q. What happens if I RED on an activity with You?
A. I stop, check in, and guide the session in another direction (unless you decide to end all together). Respecting safe words allows U/us to explore safely.

Q. Do you do no safe word or no limits sessions?
A. I do not 99% of the time. The 1% when I might play without safe words is extremely rare. It’s also an in depth topic on ethics for another day. 

Q. Will you do Consensual Non-Consent (CNC) sessions?
A. Yes. I enjoy CNC scenes. Don’t know what that is after reading the previous link? Click here for even more information on consensual non-consent. Click on this article for more insight into safe words. The article discusses fantasies where a partner says stop but wants to have the scene continue consensually.

Q. Are You discreet?
A. It is in both our collective interests to be discreet. What we do in our sessions and your identity I shall take to the grave. As a professional Dominatrix, this is very important, I respect your privacy under any circumstances. I will never call you unsolicited. My primary means of communication is email, and the only time we will ever communicate via phone is in our consult call and on the day of session when you need to get in touch with Me.

Furthermore, I will never take photographs or videos without your expressed permission. I ask you to be likewise discreet and respect My privacy. Any photos you may see on My Twitter feed or website have been consented to be used.

Toilet Training Sessions

Q. How can I book a hardsports session with You?
A. I expect a deposit paid in advance of the session. Hardsports sessions are an additional $100. This is industry standard and non-negotiable. I will need to receive your deposit at least 2 days prior to a requested session. FTT sessions are only available once a day during the hours of 11am – 12pm.

Q. Is your scat fresh? Do you take anything to make yourself go during a session?
A.  I take pride in My natural skills to provide the best toilet training for My toilets slaves. There is a clear reason why I do this session at the same time every day. Regularity. In regards to amount: I will not grant sessions to anyone who places demands  for Me to produce large quantities in one go. I am a Goddess, not a machine. I have let go of toilet slaves who disrespected Me by this kind of objectification before. The only toilet slaves and scat fetishists I keep in My life are those who who show respect and gratitude for what I provide. As a Goddess My body fluctuates and so does the amounts and aromas it gives off. 

Q. Do you make toilet clips? 

A.  I make watersports clips and toilet fantasy clips. I do not make scat clips. I will not be creating any as this would take away from the taboo element I so enjoy. Only slaves who serve in person as My toilet get to explore FTT beneath Me. 

With that being said, you can find one of My top selling clips “Save Our Marriage and Eat My…” here. 


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